Hi Mona! Thank you for being here. This is a multi-part question. But I’m going to do my best to answer here. Though Divine Feminine and Masculine energy are NOT about gender, many self-identified women and femmes do end up aligning with that Divine Feminine template and showing up in a dynamic with their romantic partners through that lens.

So….I describe this more in my article “Forgiving the Divine Masculine”, but feminine energy is said to be enduring and patient (as love is), intuitive and deeply feeling: it is the quieter and more steadfast qualities of unconditional love. While the masculine template is about movement, stamina, earthly manifestation, and action.

While the masculine DOES feel the separation, it often, in earlier parts of this journey, goes unseen and unacknowledged because they are running from the part of themselves that is intuitive and connected and conscious. Because they are running from their own healing, the parts of themselves they do not want to see are inevitably lit up by consciousness.

Now. I want you to be VERY careful here before you apply this narrative to someone. Know that the twin flame journey is about more than their healing. If you’re not growing and healing, if you’re just staying stagnant in pain, this is likely not a twin flame. You’re heartbroken and refusing to let go.

If this person has never acknowledged any kind of connection or draw or affinity towards you AT ALL then this is likely not a twin flame. This is limerence on your part or again, attachment to a concept.

It is VERY important that we not attach to the concept of twin flames and then spend years unhappy awaiting their rerun when this person was never meant to “return” and we were never in “separation”. Many people hurt themselves that way and I hate seeing it.

Please….don’t let the twin flame concept hurt you. If you’re on this journey and you’re sure, you’ve tried to get out of it and it’s just not happening, okay. I hope my words and experiences give you solace. But if you are wrestling with a broken heart, allow yourself to heal. I promise you will find love again. ❤️